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Bill Coins

Before we can dig the hole, we've got to secure a construction loan. No matter how good our credit is, no matter how big our down payment, no matter how secure our income, this step has always just been nerve-wracking to me. It keeps me up and night and gives me ulcers. Mostly, I suppose, because it feels like it is completely out of our control.

The current financial market is making things exponentially worse.

After sending the 1040's and the W-2's and all the other various and sundry forms and statements, our broker ordered an appraisal of the project. What a nightmare! The first appraisal came back. It was just about the exact same cost of labor and materials to build. Without even considering the quarter of a millions dollars we spent on the lot.

Why?

When the real estate market tanks, no one can sell their homes. And when nothing sells, the prices plunge. When prices drop below the existing mortgages, people have to use a short sale. And when short sales are prevalent, housing comps are unimaginably horrible.

You would think that a depressed housing/construction market would be a great time to buy or build. And it is, if you can get financing. We've got subcontractors calling us day and night, anxious to get to work. But every single comp for our size of home that has sold since April in our city—every single one—was a short sale. Read that: appraisals make the land utterly worthless.

Right now we are working through the problem of trying to build a house that will cost almost as much as the appraisal and trying to get a loan-to-value ratio that doesn't put us off the interest rate charts.

Given the rock-bottom interest rate from the Federal Reserve—and all the billions in bailout money the banks are getting—you'd think they'd have something to lend at a reasonable rate. But so far, I'm not seeing it.

Alison Moore Smith is a 61-year-old entrepreneur who graduated from BYU in 1987. She has been (very happily) married to Samuel M. Smith for 40 years. They are parents of six incredible children and grandparents to two astounding grandsons. She is the author of The 7 Success Habits of Homeschoolers.