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Posted By: onwardupwardFirstly, is it TJed's legitimacy you question, or Oliver Demille's?
Secondly, why does this topic warrant a "sticky?"

I have read into TJed and find its principles have merit.
Questioning Oliver Demille's character is a separate issue from whether the method a family uses to teach is legitimate. I think if you choose a teaching avenue, and it works for you, then it's legit.
I don't question the "fad" concept of some methods, since I can understand the whole homeschool bandwagon arena. However, I would like to think that most people who homeschool don't do it lightly, and make it a personal decision, not a group activity.
The aspect of homeschooling I relish the most is that I can do what works for each child, and fit their studies to their needs and interests.

I guess my real question is what bothers you so much about tjed that you feel the need to "warn" people? Is is Demille, or the method?
Posted By: shanantThe biggest problem I have with the legitimacy of this method is the promise: child plus TJED = leader and statesmen. I do not see any way of evaluating that.
It seems to me to be a very emotional pull.
One of the things that did not work for me with the method is Inspire, Don't Require.
for me it is Inspire and Require.
I also have a problem with the Classics, not Textbooks. It only works it you want a liberal arts education. If you are more science oriented as my family is we need the textbooks to learn.
Posted By: Alison Moore SmithI'd almost say that anyone who says "We are ________" (TJEders, unschoolers, CMers, etc.) and puts a METHOD in that space hasn't done their homework.
Posted By: shanant
Another problem I have come across is that many people feel like this is the only true way to homeschool. Not everyone who follows TJED believes this but many portray this as a better way than every other way. According to church teachings the only more "important" knowledge is spiritual knowledge.
Posted By: Amy EAt first, many of the ideas were appealing to me until my dear, sweet, analytical husband started pointing out its flaws
Has anyone else wondered how much the LDS influence in TJEd has caused so many LDS members to follow it? I don't know if anyone has done an analysis of TJEd philosophy and LDS doctrine/culture, but I think it might be telling. It also may explain why so many are able to "trust the process." I wonder if this is a case of "if it has some true principles, it must all be true" type of thing.
When the temptation to return to requiring, textbooks, canned curriculum, and even public school arises, we as parents must go back to those feelings present when we first felt that TJEd was right for our family. We can trust that desire to give our children a chance to become truly educated, great men and women of character who will someday change the world. Our children have important missions to fulfill, And parents are equipped to help them live up to those missions. But we have to trust our hearts, our feelings, those whisperings from God.
Trusting the process yields the best results for a true Leadership Education. Just keep moving forward on the path you have chosen.
How is TJEd different from other methods?
First of all, TJEd is not really a method, in and of itself. One can use almost any method and still apply TJEd principles. As long as the Seven Keys are being used, parents are setting an example of studying, and children are being taught using the Phases of Learning as a guide, it is TJEd.
For example, the Montessori method and Unschooling are wonderful for children in Core Phase. Charlotte Mason is a tremendous guide for children in the Love of Learning Phase. And a child is ready for Scholar Phase when she willingly submits to a demanding mentor and has a powerful sense of mission that drives her to immerse herself in the study of subjects of her own choosing for several hours each day. At this point, many other methods and curicula can be used to supplement a personalized education plan.

Posted By: Alison Moore SmithFrankly, I think this is just a way for TJEd not to be SEEN as being in competition with other methods
Posted By: Alison Moore SmithThere is no perfect method. That being the case, it's damaging to homeschoolers and homeschooling when they can't even see the problems or limitations they are working with. TJEd is particularly flawed BECAUSE of the grandiose and often erroneous claims of the founders.
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